Tales of a Sex Worker

Took the night off last night to catch up on some sleep and now I'm back in business baby! lol Online and ready to go. :)

Happy Thanksgiving!

Hope everyone is having a great day!

I had 3 calls last night. Overall not too bad considering how it's been lately. Two of the calls were from the same guy. He wanted to be dominated though oddly that's not the listing he called. *shrugs* I had fun talking with him and whatnot. He seemed to enjoy it too. He called me twice afterall and his calls totaled half an hour.

He says he'll call me again on Saturday. We hang up and I am happy at the thought of another regular. One who also likes to be financially dominated. Oh I can make money off of him I thought.

Then a little while later I look and see that he left me a 1 star rating for both calls! WTF!!! I tell some of my friends who use NF about him and they say he does that to everyone. He'll call, make you think the call was perfect, and then give you a bad rating. He's only ever given a good rating to one or two people. *sigh* Go figure.

The third call was pretty cool. Some guy wanted advice basically. Lasted 10 min.

So, I wound up making about $40 last night. Not great but not horrible either. I got calls which is better than some nights. lol

My sitter didn't show up today. I was going to use the money from today's shoot to buy a turkey and some other things for thanksgiving since we have nothing in the bank. I even went to her place and there was no answer at her door. WTF!!! I need a reliable sitter because that's something she's never been. Unfortunatly no one else I know can babysit durring the day.

*sigh*

So, once again I had to cancel the shoot. If I keep this up they're not going to want to do business with me.

Ok, so I log onto niteflirt and feature all of my listings. Then I decide to lay down inbetween calls since I'm so tired. Well, guess what! I fell asleep. Thankfully I had the phone on loud and right next to my head. Usually that will wake me up.

I wake up at about 12:15 and decide to check on NF to make sure I didn't miss any calls. No negative points next to any of my listings so I didn't. I look and notice that none of my featured listings were clicked on. Odd. They're usally always clicked on, even when no one calls.

So, I look to see where everything is placed. They're placed in good spots. hmmmmm....

Then I notice it. In my exhaustion I forgot to put myself available!

Guess I really needed the sleep! lol

YAY! I now have 7 listings active on niteflirt. Woohoo! More listings mean more calls. More calls mean more $$$. More $$$ means X-mas gifts. So YAY! lol I just hope someone calls my financial domination line. I could really use a cash cow right about now. 4.99/min for that line and tribute buttons to boot. After my first call on that line I'm going to go and get a PO box so I can start a wishlist.

Gawd I love my job! lol

Finally got a call last night! THANKFULLY! I was really starting to get upset. lol It only lasted 5 minutes which is fine. At least it was a call! lol

I can't wait till the holiday slump is over. I'll be so happy when that happens. For now I'll just be happy with what I get.

Oh, I might be doing a photo shoot today. Depends on if my babysitter ever shows up. She was supposed to be here an hour ago. *sigh* I don't think she fully understand how important these jobs are to me. Or maybe she doesn't care. *sigh* I don't know. Maybe she just gets caught up in her own stuff.

I'm so tired. I think tonight I'll nap inbetween calls.

I am so tired. So very sick and tired of perverts. I'm not talking about the ones who call me. That's all fine and dandy. I'm talking about the ones who ask for nude pictures of me or try to cyber or try to get me to cam for them or talk with them on the phone and all for free! I mean...HELLO! This is my JOB! And while I like my JOB, I don't want to do it for free!!!

What... just because I do the occasional porn I'm a whore? Just because I do phone sex means I want to cyber? WTF?

The thing that gets me is that my line is soooo slow right now. I added some new ones but they haven't been approved by niteflirt yet. For the past few days I've been logging in and waiting for calls and had none come in. It's annoying and it's draining. However, I know the horny bastards are out there because they keep on asking for free shit!

Thankfully it's not just me it's slow for. Some of the chicks who average 10 calls a day are getting maybe 1 or 2 if even that. It's just the holidays. Yet I keep on logging in for the off chance that some horny guy with his dick in his hands will pick up the phone and call me. Geeze...when I put it that way it sounds pathetic! lol Would be pathetic if that call didn't mean $$$.

I really can't get annoyed though. I mean they did this even when I wasn't in this industry. It just seems like more now because they're contacting me through various online profiles and blogs that I put up to promote myself.

*sigh* /rant

Worked on my domination page a bit and added the above pic.

I've logged on early today in the hopes of getting some more customers.

I'm sitting here catching up on one of the PSO boards I'm on. Mostly BS stuff. Made two more listings on NiteFlirt today. Debating about writing some more. One of the other PSOs said that I should do forced feminization but I'm not sure about that. I can do it just fine. Just not sure if I want a listing just for that.

I may put stuff in other listings though. Just need to decide what exactly I want to do. I so can't wait for some of these listings to get approved. Should be fun to do the dom stuff.

For now just waiting till it's 8 pm when I log on. Hope I get some calls tonight. It's so slow. Not only for me, but for everyone! Even those who work for dispatch companies. Just a bad time of year for phone sex I guess.

It's so slow lately. Yesterday I was loged on for most of the day until about midnight. Not a single call. Why? Because of Thanksgiving! I have one regular so far who said he'll call me once a week. That's awesome since his calls are over half an hour long. But, I can't live off of that.

I never thought I would say this but I can't wait for the holidays to be over.

No calls yesterday, no calls yet today (been logged on most of the day) and probably no calls tomorrow either. Why? The holidays. Things will pick up a little after Thanksgiving and then drop off again in December. It'll probably be that way until after New Years. I might get a call here or there but not many. Probably not enough to be worth it.

I've tweaked my listings. I added a financial dom line (if that rings than cha-ching!). I'm featuring two of my listings and will be featuring the FD line as soon as it's approved.

I need to promote myself more. I need money so I can pay bills and buy X-mas and Yule gifts. *sigh* I need a lot of things.

XOXOXO
Amerose

Ever since I first heard of this it tickled my fancy. I know I could be a dom if I wanted to. I am, afterall, a switch sometimes. However, could I be a FD? Good question. I think I'm going to try and find out. I created my listing and as soon as it's approved I'm going to put pay buttons on it. A customer can call me and spend 9.99/min or pay me tribute or both. The tribute buttons will go from $50-$999.99.

From what I've been reading on the boards and the research I've done both on NiteFlirt and on the web is that these are totally acceptable prices. Some charge even more! Why? Because much less would be a turn off for these guys.

The whole idea behind financial domination, as I understand it, is that these guys want someone to spend money on. They don't want to be in control of their own finances (oh, and this happens with chicks too). They want to blow their money on someone else. Spoil that person. And they want to be humiliated while they do it (some to the extent of being ignored while on a call).

IMO it's worth a try. Worse comes to worse I don't make much on it. Oh well. I'm not making much anyway. And hey, I DO deserve to be spoiled a little. hehe

I did the shoot. First we did some mooning photos. We went over to the trolley station and took them. So, there are a few photos now of myself mooning the camera with the trolley in the background (it was another girl and myself). Kinda cool. I would've asked if I could have some of the photos so I could post them here if they were just me.

Then we did a discipline video. I had to tell the dom some major issue in my life. I chose my desire to quit smoking. First he had me write on a piece of paper over and over that I wouldn't smoke anymore. Then he had me stand in the corner while he got everything ready. He then pulled me by the ear over to where the chair and camera were.

First he had me say on camera why I was there. I was instructed before hand to answer all of his questions "yes sir" or "no sir." Then he had me drop my pants and underware and lay down on his lap.

I was to put my hands, palm down on the floor, while he spanked me 12 times with an object (a wooden paddle I think). I had to count off the number of spanks and repeat the line I had to write for each one.

Then, he spanked me with his hand while holding my wrists in the other hand against my back. I don't know how long he spanked me for. But, it felt like forever. Man did it hurt! It was great!

After he had me pull up my pants and underware and sit on his lap, facing him, and had me hug him. We cuddled like that for a while. He stroked my hair and rubbed my cheek and back. Occasionally he would kiss me on the forehead and I kissed him on the cheek. It's kind of cool the way a dom behaves after discipline.

My butt is bright red and looks like I'm going to have a slight bruise. lol I've done BDSM and other fetishes before but never to this extent. It was an interesting experience.

I have a shoot today. It's going to be a fetish dom/sub thing. Basically I tell the guy some issue in my life and he disciplines me for it. I've seen his other films. He basically spanks the chick's ass for a few minutes. So, I'm probably going to have a sore butt. But hey, it should be fun too. I like the whole submissive thing. BDSM fetishes are always so much fun to do!

I'll be sure to let you guys know how it went!

I'm totally bored. No calls yet tonight. Wednesdays can be like that sometimes. Though it's payday for some people so you would think the line would ring. I just checked my ringer to make sure it was still on. Sure enough it is.

I know it's slow because I've only had one click on my profile. Usually by now I've had a few and one or two calls.

Ironically, Wednesday is known as "Hump Day" lol

I'm working now. Remember if you are a first time caller to NF you get 3 free minutes. And if your call with me lasts over 30 min you get 5 free min towards your next call.

Tonight will be the first time I do submissive stuff. I hope I get a call. I think it'll be a lot of fun to talk about bondage and S&M and whatnot. Really kinky. I can't wait.

As for my more vanilla calls, they're always fun too. It's amazing being able to do something I love. I hope I get another call like the one last night.

Only 2 1/2 hours and I'll be good to go!

I'm trying to learn how to pay my taxes as a small business owner. The company I work through hires us as individual contractors (or something to that effect) and so we don't get wages. We do pay them for the service they provide in connecting us with customers (ie. 20 cents for the connection of a call plus 30% of what we charge).

It doesn't look like it'll be too difficult to do my taxes. I just need to file quarterly if my income exceeds $400 and then at the end of the year. I need to pay estimated income tax at those times and then either get a refund or pay at the end of the year. Because we usually get a GREAT refund every year I doubt I'll have to pay anything. Whatever I owe would just get taken out of our usual refund. At least that's what I hope. lol

I also need to do bookeeping. I need to have a record of everything I earn as well as any expenses. My expenses are simple. Amount paid for the service and any marketing I do. The rest is income.

I'm having some trouble figuring everything out though. For example I need a code for the type of business I have. But, I can't find where to find the code. I also don't know exactly when to file. I'm learning though. I suppose I can contact the IRS to find out.

UGH! My head is spinning. After the first or second time I fill out the forms I'll have a better handle on what I'm doing. I'm much better at learning hands on. *wink* hehe

Well, off to learn more!

OMG I just had the BEST call! It lasted 62 minutes!! Woohoo!! It really helped boost my confidence in my calls. I am so thankful to the caller who called me! It was also a VERY enjoyable call. lol I never thought I would have so much fun. Totally made up for all the short ones I've been getting lately.